COACHING SESSIONS WITH CLARE
Building A Kind Relationship With Your Emotional Suffering

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OVERVIEW

We are hardwired for warm self-connection.  But for most of us this skill wasn't modelled or taught to us.  In fact most of us were raised surrounded by empathic failure and disconnection.  Where survival meant giving up our vitality in order not to 'disrupt' the nervous systems of those around us.

My coaching sessions are to support you to return to that vitality through understanding what you need at this present moment in your life. I support people to grow the skill of self-kindness through empathy with their emotional pain.  This requires a commitment to a path of patience as you approach your inner landscape and all that resides there in terms of your life story and your aliveness within that.

LEARNING TO ACCOMPANY YOUR EMOITIONAL SUFFERING BY:

  • Practicing the skill of self-empathy and unconditional self-understanding 

  • Building a kind relationship towards yourself in the face of life's difficulties

  • Building present moment awareness that you have been triggered by something someone says or does in order to have choice in how you wish to respond

  • Becoming familiar with the aspects of our language that until we understand it's connection to our needs can disconnect us from our life force, the shoulds, have to's, who's to blame, punishment and reward

  • Making changes in your life to support your peace of mind (peace of mind is a way of life)

  • Articulating your emotional pain by identifying what you don't want in order uncover what you do want in life

  • Bringing awareness to how you habitually respond to conflicts in life in order to remember you do have choice in how you respond and can develop new ways of responding that are relevant to the situation of your life now and who you are now

THE SKILL OF NOTICING YOUR INTERNAL WORLD

Below is an outline of the language, thinking and conditioning that I will support you to notice whilst we work together. This language can be directed towards ourselves or towards others. They are visitors that arrive with feelings of anxiety, fear, sadness, depression, anger, resentment, regret.  On the face of it they 'alienate' life, however when we slow down and connect to the energy they arrive with they reveal our needs to us.  From there we can begin to bring about practical strategies in our lives to support what we are longing for.  They are not the enemy, they are the messengers that bring the possibility of inner spaciousness and renewed life. 

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SELF-COMPASSION PROCESS MAP

Below is the process I use throughout the session. This is the inner process I will be leading you through.  In my experience uncovering our needs through unconditional empathic presence with our feelings and thoughts can support us to take action in our lives, set boundaries and to find our voice and passions.

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Here is a list of feelings.
Feelings communicate to us to what degree we are supporting our needs

Here is a list of needs. You have needs because you have a body. Your body will constantly communicate with you somatically about them 

Here is a list of 'faux' feelings
e.g. "I feel that you" is a thought and a judgement, not a feeling

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Preparing A Healing Space

ONLINE COACHING SESSIONS

The online environment can be a tricky place to do this kind of work.  To prepare the container where you are, you may find it a support to prepare an uninterrupted and warm space for your coaching session, joining on a lap top for visibility and making sure you have stable wifi connection, making your environment as comfortable as possible for the inner work and explorations you would like to make.  A kind of welcoming place for you to undertake the growth you are longing for.

PLEASE READ MY TERMS OF SERVICE

Cost of 1 hr Coaching Session is £60.00

Cost of 1/2 hr Coaching Session is £30.00

Payment is to be made at the point of booking

Cancellation up to 24hrs prior to the session a full refund will be made

Cancellation less than 24hrs prior to the session no refund will be made

The session will begin and end at the time agreed

 

Thanks for your understanding and I hope these boundaries protect both of us in terms of respecting time and resources.

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As part of my work I offer practices and teaching to support self-connection and self-accompaniment through an embodied awareness of your needs. 

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